Dating more successful women
Some guys seem to be under the misguided impression that asking a girl out for coffee is casual, lessens his chance of looking desperate, and is a sort of “low risk opportunity.” This is theorized in a man’s brain as low investment, since coffee is cheaper than steak and wine for instance, and thus, if it turns out that she doesn’t like you at the end of the date, you didn’t really lose very much.
This theory may seem logical to you, but asking a girl out for a coffee is already a surefire way to predict a bad ending, since she will probably label you as a flake or a cheapskate.
This is okay after the first date, and only if she expresses interest when you casually bring it up in conversation.
You might see a shooting range as a mutual adrenaline rush, where you can show off your bravado, but it is yet another place that just isn’t date worthy.
While a girl will usually feel special and exclusive when she gets to meet the “boys,” that only applies once you’ve been dating her for a while.
Plus, you really want to make a good impression, and having one of your pals dish something embarrassing you did one time might leave a bad taste in her mouth.
She will also assume that you are “not that into her,” and lose interest.
So you can probably consider that your last first impression!
When a girl gets asked out, she’s looking for a guy who is genuinely interested in her, and is also invested in getting to know her.
[Read: 15 things you need to know when planning your first date] Date ideas that she won’t be eager to go on Some of these date ideas leave her interests out of the equation, while others don’t give the impression that she’s special.