Dating a younger man pros and cons
Ben changed my views on younger guys — because, really, the operative word is here, not man (and, hi, I'm a woman, not a girl) — upside down, and made me see the pros and cons of dating a younger guy, like...
This might be selfish — actually, it is 100 percent selfish —but it's true.
It seems whatever age I am (and, spoiler alert: I'm in my thirties now), I've found myself saying "guys my age don't have their shit together." Even when I was on Tinder, I set my minimum age to a couple years older then me because I had no interest in dating younger.
But then I met Ben (name has been changed to protect the overly sensitive).
Dating a younger man is a complex experience of trying to keep up with his generation, and trying to school him on your own.
Then again, your body isn’t capable at, say, 40 of what it was at, say, 20. We (Oath) and our partners need your consent to access your device, set cookies, and use your data, including your location, to understand your interests, provide relevant ads and measure their effectiveness.Oath will also provide relevant ads to you on our partners' products.I often found myself saying "when I was your age,"and I hated it. At times, I felt like I was more of a teacher then a girlfriend.I wasn't learning anything from him because I had already found the answers to my questions.