Dating a secretive man
He will never consider you his equal, he will never put you first, and he will not take your opinions and feelings into consideration because he puts himself ahead of you (and everyone else).
Now, if your guy occasionally walks ahead of you because he’s super excited over something (the ball game you’re heading to or the new video game he’s nerding over), that’s okay.
The first sign I’m not going to date someone is when I tell him I’m a writer and he doesn’t say “Really? ” If he has no interest in your job or your interests, then he’ll never support you in your endeavors. Your man is nowhere to be found…or too busy to show up.
More importantly, if you date a guy who says, “Wouldn’t you rather do (insert something random and high class here) instead? This is the kind of guy you don’t want in your life. It doesn’t matter how much my mom and I fight, if my guy disrespects her then the relationship will never work out. I dated a guy who was very nice and sweet, but he always put the guys first.
Still, even if your man isn’t playing for the other team, he still shouldn’t put the guys before you!
If he does, he’s a loser and you will never come first in his life.
I should have a magnet on my fridge that says, “You’re not the worst I’ve dated.” Seriously, you can’t imagine some of the losers I’ve had the misfortune of meeting. Sometimes you think you’re dating a great guy, but then later you realize he wasn’t really that great.
Really, don’t you want a man who will take care of you? Even though she knows that online dating’s not working right now. Well forget it then, she has never been married and she is 45. Even though she hasn’t had a relationship in years. Click here to register for the call: Your friend, Evan She’s 45, she owns her own business, she looks great for her age, she’s never been married, and she knows that something needs to change.If your man is too good to flip burgers to provide for his family, then he’s a loser. Has he ever referred to a woman walking down the street as a “sl*t” because she’s in a short skirt?Has he ever said, “I’d like to punch her in the face” about a woman he doesn’t like?